I dress like an old lady?!?

This is what my bf told me on Saturday. Let me explain. We got into an argument about something he did. He says if I had higher self-esteem I wouldn't have done what I did. Then he says you know why I don't go out with you...it's because you dress like an old woman. *slap on the face My jaw dropped. He says though I'm a big gurl I have a great body that would kill these skinny bitches, but I don't know it. Then he goes through my shoes and tell me which ones are acceptable. He does the same with some of my clothes. What he said hurt me deeply but I'm glad he was honest woth me. I want to look good and be hot, but the attention from men has always been difficult for me to receive. I've tried to explain that to him. I guess I've been hidding in big unattractive clothes to deter attention. It works 98% of the time. It worked too well because prior to last year I hadn't had a date in 7years. Now I am working on my self-esteem. I'm learning to care for myself and my body. What have you done to help build your self-esteem?

imPRESS Press-On Manicure

imPRESS Press-On Manicure

This product looks cool. I've seen it in the store, but haven't used it yet. I think I will try it out because I am no good at painting nails myself. I will try it and then post a review.